I asked a question and only when I give the answer will you understand. You say 98 percent of women are not happy with their husbands? A wife is one who looks at her husband with love, and similarly the husband should be loving towards his wife. The husband will ask "Tell me, goddess" to his wife. The wife will speak saying "Tell me, lord."
When speaking to spouses, we say "come here, go there, she, this one" - accordingly they too will respond in the same manner. If you observe the sentences spoken in the celestial realm, you will understand. The respect that a wife gives to her husband and the respect that a husband gives to his wife should be observed in speech and words.
In between this, some argument comes due to circumstances. Where? In the upper world. When even they have arguments, what are we compared to them? Then they say someone is watching us. Someone will be properly hammering a nail, the blow will be falling correctly. Even if the gaze is elsewhere, the hand will be doing the work correctly.
But when others watch, unknowingly that hand will miss the nail and hit the hand instead. The reason for this is others' gaze - impure thoughts enter within. Similarly, someone will look at a harmonious husband and wife.
Earth dwellers! Now I'm coming to the important sentence, listen carefully. Whether wife, employee, employer, one who gets angry, or one who speaks against in ignorance - you should stand facing east and north, and the person with the problem should stand facing west and south. When positioned like this, half the victory is achieved.
If the matter is still not resolved after positioning, then they will have right breath flowing more, we will have left breath flowing, or both will have right breath flowing, or both will have left breath flowing.
Regarding which direction one faces - if someone standing facing east-north has right breath flowing, even celestial beings cannot defeat that person. Standing facing south-west, or even facing east-north, if left nostril breath flows more for them, defeat is certain. This is the subtlety of Vaasiyogam.
Why do fights come? "If wife hits me, I'll go to police station, I'll go to women's forum, I'll bring brothers together" - why this problem? Whoever you are, change the technique, use Vaasiyogam, search where they teach this.
There's no use talking stories, no benefit at all. You would have watched TV programs - they speak all night long. There may be speech, but go home and see the problems - they too will definitely have problems. Husband and wife must first conquer life, raise children properly.
In the context of teaching all these matters, these are things that shouldn't be taught to everyone - there's fear they'll reach unworthy people who will mock it. Those who are proud saying "everything can be achieved by my ability" - they should work hard, struggle, and finally when water and waste flow through their legs, then they'll realize. These shouldn't reach them.
This is why every Siddhar and sage speaks in hidden meanings. If we surrender all this, conquer domestic life, don't waste time going here and there, searching this place and that place.
Don't waste time losing prana and talking all night long. In the 60 years God has given, you sleep for 20 years - you don't even know how much of the remaining life you've lived. In this, searching for temples, lineages, spiritual discourses, spirituality, touring the world - where are you going and what will become of you?
Therefore, use the remaining days as useful days according to what's appropriate. If you do a business, this business should be something we can do later. Someone who invested crores is different; someone who went as an ordinary laborer doing that business has no merit - in the end he's just a slave.
Vaasiyogam is similar. We unknowingly got married, had children - we shouldn't think of leaving this domestic life to become a sage, become a sorcerer, run away from family. Keep the breathing according to how much breath you have, keep business according to how much money you have, suitable for breath and money respectively.